Getting Past the Affair
A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move On--Together or Apart

Douglas K. Snyder, Donald H. Baucom, and Kristina Coop Gordon

342 Pages Size: 6" x 9"
Paperback February 2007 ISBN 978-1-57230-801-5 Cat. #0801 Price: $16.95 $14.41 order	Hardcover February 2007 ISBN 978-1-59385-357-0 Cat. #5357 Price: $40.00 $34.00 order	E-book March 2011 ISBN 978-1-60623-799-1 EPUB format Price: $16.95 $14.41 order

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"Informative in helping to further understand some of the issues faced by people who might have been affected by an affair. As a stand-alone program for anyone attempting to make sense of what might be happening to them after an affair has been disclosed, this book would be helpful to both the 'participating partner' and 'injured partner.' It would also be a useful adjunct to working therapeutically with couples and could supplement a therapeutic program. I would recommend this book to anyone working with couple relationships and indeed to any couple I may encounter who are going though or have experienced an affair."

-Sexual and Relationship Therapy


"A comprehensive self-help text for couples or individuals experiencing an affair. Both the injured partner and the participating partner are specifically addressed with thought-provoking inquiries into their experiences....An underlying theme of hope is written into the entire book."

-Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy


"A treasure-trove of clinical wisdom firmly informed by a bedrock of clinical research. The three authors are leading couple researchers that exemplify the scientist-practitioner model of clinical psychology....This is a thorough, thoughtfully laid out book....The book is clearly written as a standalone, self-help book but could easily be used as an adjunct to therapy....A deeply compassionate book, as the authors have clearly worked hard to distill their collective clinical and research wisdom to help couples working through the aftermath of an affair. We will be using it inour own teaching and work with couples and highly recommend it to therapists and couples alike."

-The Family Psychologist


"[The authors] have designed a program to help couples overcome an affair, understand why it happened, and consider their best options. A particularly helpful chapter supplies suggestions for talking to children, family members, and friends....Full of examples for applying the information; recommended."

-Library Journal


"It has been 4 years since the affair. The hurt lingered for what felt like forever, but our marriage was too precious to just give up on it. Working through understanding how it happened, and how to finally move past it and recover, was the most important thing. We couldn't have made it without the program in this book."

-Ann and Patrick O.


"A worthy and important contribution to understanding and helping couples face one of the worst problems in a marriage."

-John M. Gottman, PhD, author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work


"This book is like a daily 'house call' from your own personal relationship expert. It is a 'must read' for anyone trying to recover from the trauma of an affair and make good decisions about the future."

-Peggy Vaughan, DearPeggy.com, author of The Monogamy Myth


"A book of exceptional wisdom, compassion, and practical advice from a dynamite team of therapists and researchers. I wish every couple who has experienced the trauma of an affair would read this remarkable book."

-William J. Doherty, PhD, author of Take Back Your Marriage


"This is a wise guide and one I will enthusiastically recommend."

-Frank Pittman, MD, author of Private Lies