Helping Couples Get Past the Affair
Second Edition
A Clinician's Guide
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Now in a thoroughly revised second edition reflecting new clinical insights and key societal changes, this book presents a three-stage therapy approach for helping couples recover from infidelity. Clinicians learn empirically grounded strategies to guide both partners to process what happened and why, consider what needs to change in their relationship, and move on emotionally, whether or not they reconcile. The authors are leading couple therapists who share vivid clinical examples and skillfully designed exercises for use in and between sessions. Twenty-four reproducible client handouts and other tools can be downloaded and printed in a convenient 8½“ x 11” size.
New to This Edition
- Increased attention to different relationship types, orientations, and cultural diversity.
- Heightened focus on helping couples identify and honor their own relationship boundaries.
- Chapter on adapting treatment for various contexts, such as when only one partner seeks therapy or when one or both partners has complicating mental health concerns.
- Includes 24 reproducible/downloadable tools.
“The book provides guidance for therapists as they support clients in what is often a long and difficult process towards resolution of their issues.…This is a book that really looks at the work that is needed from an honest and realistic point of view and provides sensible suggestions for moving therapy forward. It will be a valuable addition to the bookshelf.”
—The Independent Practitioner (on the first edition)
“I like this book. It's straightforward and the procedures outlined in it make sound clinical sense to me....The authors offer a concrete approach to these troubled couples, and their book is peppered with case examples that are rich, illustrative, and all too familiar to this therapist. I recommend this book to anyone who works with families.”
—The Bulletin of the Menninger Clinic (on the first edition)
About the Authors
Donald H. Baucom, PhD, is Distinguished Professor Emeritus of Psychology and Neuroscience at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he previously also served as Director of Clinical Psychology Training. His research and publications spanning over 50 years have helped to shape the field’s understanding of intimate relationships. As one of the originators of cognitive-behavioral couple therapy, Dr. Baucom helped develop and evaluate the efficacy of couple-based interventions for the treatment of relationship distress, recovery from infidelity, prevention of relationship discord, enhancement of satisfied relationships, and treatment of psychopathology in the couple context, as well as applications of couple-based interventions to a variety of health problems. He has served as Associate Editor for
Behavior Therapy and on the editorial boards of numerous journals, and has conducted professional workshops on couple therapy around the world. Dr. Baucom is a recipient of the Mary G. Clarke Award for distinguished contributions to psychology from the North Carolina Psychological Association. Throughout his career, he has maintained an active clinical practice.
Douglas K. Snyder, PhD, is Professor Emeritus of Psychological and Brain Sciences at Texas A&M University, where he served as Director of Clinical Training for 20 years. His research and publications focus on the assessment and treatment of couple relationships, with an emphasis on integrative approaches tailored to specific partner and relationship characteristics. Dr. Snyder has served as Editor of the
Clinician’s Research Digest and as Associate Editor of the
Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology and
Journal of Family Psychology. He has worked extensively with the Departments of Defense and Veterans Affairs to train both chaplains and mental health professionals in helping couples recover from infidelity. Dr. Snyder is a recipient of the Distinguished Contribution to Research in Family Therapy Award from the Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, the Distinguished Contribution to Family Psychology Award from the Society for Couple and Family Psychology of the American Psychological Association (APA), and the Distinguished Psychologist Award from the APA's Society for the Advancement of Psychotherapy. He maintains an active clinical practice.
Emily A. Carrino, PhD, received her doctorate in clinical psychology from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill (UNC). Her research and publications on romantic relationships emphasize sociocultural factors in couples’ experiences of relationship distress, with a focus on sexual and gender minority populations. She explores how couples address boundaries and other complex domains in their intimate relationships and close communities. Dr. Carrino has served in various roles as a clinical psychologist, including as co-director of the couple therapy clinic at UNC, trainer and supervisor of couple therapists, and as an experienced couple therapist herself. She conducts national and international trainings in couple therapy, including having served as a consultant to the National Health Service in England and through the Behavioral Health Innovation and Dissemination Center at the University of Utah. Dr. Carrino has been recognized by UNC for her excellence in undergraduate teaching and for her service contributions in justice, equity, diversity, and inclusion.
Audience
Couple and family therapists and counselors, clinical psychologists, social workers, pastoral counselors, and psychiatrists.
Course Use
May serve as a supplemental text in graduate-level courses.
Previous editions published by Guilford:
First Edition, © 2009
ISBN: 9781609182397
New to this edition:
- Increased attention to different relationship types, orientations, and cultural diversity.
- Heightened focus on helping couples identify and honor their own relationship boundaries.
- Chapter on adapting treatment for various contexts, such as when only one partner seeks therapy or when one or both partners has complicating mental health concerns.
- Includes 24 reproducible/downloadable tools.