“You aren't your partner's therapist—but you can make a real difference in their recovery from depression. Dr. Dozois is a highly respected researcher and gifted clinician who brings years of wisdom to this excellent book. He gives you tools to be a better listener, communicator, and ally. The clear guidelines on setting limits and self-care are so essential for those supporting a partner.”

—Robert L. Leahy, PhD, Department of Psychiatry, Weill Cornell Medical College; Director, American Institute for Cognitive Therapy


“Anyone who wants to improve their relationship with their loved one with depression should read this book! With clarity and compassion, Dr. Dozois shows how to provide emotional support while encouraging your partner to reengage with life.”

—Judith S. Beck, PhD, President, Beck Institute for Cognitive Behavior Therapy


“When your partner is entangled with depressed mood and all it can bring, how can you stay connected without trying to 'fix' them? Dr. Dozois offers you a grounded, evidence-based way to respond—one that helps you promote meaningful change and care for yourself along the way. A compassionate and deeply practical guide.”

—Steven C. Hayes, PhD, author of Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life


“I love this book! Finally, here are practical, incredibly useful strategies for understanding your partner’s depression and what you can do to help.”

—John M. Gottman, PhD, coauthor of Fight Right